The Art of being 'Selful'.

It's time for you to be 'Selful'. Put yourself first now. Help those that deserve to be helped. It's pointless helping someone who is greedy, ungrateful and entitled. It is really okay to say no. When something disturbs your peace and overall well-being - let it go.

Maybe it's that dear friend you have been friends with for years now but seems to always take advantage of your kindness. Maybe they are constantly asking you for favors but are never there when you need them the most or it could be family, constantly bringing you down, never celebrates your successes but always have something to say - dictating your life. Put your foot down!

That time is now, to let go of all the hate, let go of all the pain, negativity and weight on your shoulders. Yes, definitely it is going to be hard to let go of people you thought had your best interests at heart but there is no point of keeping people in your life that are never for you, always bringing you down and never want to see you succeed. Simply distance yourself. Put yourself first.

This is the art of being 'Selful'. Never live for anyone. Everything you do is for yourself and for your own happiness. This is your book, your journey, your life. Don't let anyone write your story, run your race and live your life. Build yourself, work on yourself - don't try please anyone but yourself. Do things you like not because your friend is doing it as well. Study the course you want not because your parents or family wants you to.

Success is happiness - it is you doing what you love and loving what you're doing. We are all uniquely made. If God wanted us to be the same then it would have been that way but that's not the case. We are all here with uniquely different purposes. It's time to find yours. Make YOUR dreams happen. Live the life YOU want to live. Be 'Selful' and don't care about what people have to say about you. Just be You.